Module 3 Summary

  • Concerns do not include demographic characteristics, religious affiliation, manner of dress, sexual orientation, gender identity or other non-behaviors. 
  • You have options when you see something concerning. The first step is to identify whether the concerning behavior involves imminent danger. Contacting law enforcement is the best option when the behaviors increase the risk for imminent harm to the person you are concerned about or others. 
  • When you believe no imminent danger exists, you can engage, support and connect and/or contact a trusted resource for assistance. 
  • Engaging, supporting, and connecting someone to resources is not expected. Reaching out to other trusted adults for assistance is just as appropriate.  
  • If you do decide to engage, support, and connect, be sure to listen actively and use open-ended, non-judgmental, and non-confrontational questions.  

Remember, research clearly shows that engaged bystanders are able to prevent violence by understanding what concerning behaviors to look for and sharing this information with the appropriate resource. The appropriate resource may be law enforcement or other emergency services who can intervene immediately in an imminent threat, or it may be another resource better equipped to respond if the threat is not imminent. Healthy, respectful, helpful, and safe communities are those in which residents feel responsible and are willing to intervene.